Sex sounds like “Aaaaaah” or rather “Ooooooh”? THIS is what the different sounds during sex really mean!
Sometimes it just slips out. When we are really in ecstasy. When we let ourselves fall, can no longer pull ourselves together: We moan when the sex is ravishing. At the same time, every “Aaaaaaaaaaaaaah” carries a message.
You just can’t not communicate – especially in bed!
Some scream with pleasure, others remain silent with pleasure, and others let out a passionate breath: Every woman moans differently.
Many men interpret the moaning as a personal triumph, according to the motto: If she moans, I must be doing everything right.
However, the gentlemen are not seldom wrong with this: sometimes silence is the real gold in bed – and moaning is just a fake. We give men a rough guide to women’s sex noises – with a little moaning ABC:
Sex Sounds: “Aaaaaah…oohh….jaaaaaa!”
Meaning: if the woman moans exaggeratedly, it is either a) faked or b) the sign that the man should spur. With the exaggerated moaning, she appeals to the man’s lust, which experience shows can often be increased by moaning (most men are massively turned on by a moaning woman).
Desired reaction: Either – the easier variant – finish and come to climax. Or – for true experts – do everything to make the woman so hot again that she wants to continue after all. Good Luck!
“Don’t stop!”
Meaning: “Don’t stop!” Yes, when a woman says this (or similar variations like “Keep doing exactly what you’re doing!”) she actually means what she says. So you are doing everything exactly right. Yes, EVERYTHING!
Desired reaction: Continue exactly like that! Keep the speed, the position, the movement exactly the same – and don’t panic out of fear of doing something wrong now….
*silence* – if she doesn’t make any noises during sex….
Intentional meaning: In most cases a good sign. She is silent and enjoying herself. In rare cases, she may just be silent because she has fallen asleep.
Desired reaction: The man should first make sure that she is awake. If so, he can continue exactly like this for a while and then dare to go one step further: Harder, deeper, faster – whatever her (and his) preferences are….
“I’m kind of not coming today, sorry…”
Meaning: she probably won’t come, this time. Be it because she had a stressful day or is still somewhere else in her mind or just can’t relax enough – just happens.
Desired reaction: don’t be disappointed – it REALLY just has something to do with her in most cases, and it’s NOT because the sex would be so bad. Most women can (and will) enjoy sex even though they know they won’t orgasm. To be on the safe side, still ask lovingly if continuing is desired and if so, in what way.
“Uuuuuuuuuuhhhh…”
Meaning: usually means something like, “You’re on the right track!” or “This is the exact spot I love!” And as we all know, the journey is the destination….
Desired reaction: … Not always, though. If she’s about to come and he doesn’t get it and spontaneously changes position, it’s about as frustrating as when HE stands like a one and then gets turned off prematurely. So when you hear “uuuuhhhh…” just make slow changes of movement and slowly feel your way forward until you reach your goal.
Sex sounds and their meaning: Loud laughter
Meaning: It depends.
If she laughs in the middle of sex that is apparently fabulous, the laughter should be interpreted positively. It indicates an intimate, familiar relationship where she can laugh sincerely about minor misfortunes during sex (e.g. calf cramp, falling out of bed – or off the sofa, flatus vaginalis).
However, if she laughs at the first sight of the member, it could also mean something else, but that would then also be understood more as a challenge…
Desired reaction: If the former is true: Love, honor, hold on to and never let go of this woman. If the latter is true: Prove to her the opposite of what she obviously thinks….
Screaming loudly during sex
Meaning: Either it is a well faked orgasm or a real orgasm. The truth is difficult for the man to find out.
However: screaming during orgasm is not a must. Some women sigh when they come, others merely moan briefly. It’s all a matter of personality.
Desired reaction: if it is faked, it probably means something like “Now you have reached your goal, are you satisfied now? Can stop…” If the orgasm is real, man can (inwardly) pat himself on the back, put on the final spurt and then take the time to cuddle…