Some rave about it, others deny that it exists: The “anal orgasm” causes discussions and above all many questions. We reveal what the climax through anal sex is really all about.
In recent years, anal sex has long since gone from a wicked porn fantasy to common practice in many bedrooms. But there is still a lot of uncertainty: Is anal sex dangerous and, above all, can you have an anal orgasm and is it really that much better than a “conventional” climax?
What is anal orgasm and does it really exist?
Surprise! The anus is not a primary sexual organ. It is actually responsible for – cough – other things… Actually, because nevertheless anal sex is now a common sex practice. Many couples have tried it or want to try it, the following for anal sex is growing – and completely independent of the couples’ sexual orientation.
Why is that? Presumably, it’s because the anus, although not a primary sexual organ in the external area as mentioned earlier, is very much an erogenous zone. So the answer to the question of whether anal orgasm really exists is a crystal-clear “yes”: pure penetration in the inner anus area will hardly be able to cause an orgasm, but when the erogenous areas of the anus are stimulated from the outside, it’s a whole different ball game.
According to another theory, the anus and the sexual organs inside the body are so close to each other that anal penetration can also trigger an orgasm, which is then perceived as an anal orgasm. However, the nerves of the primary sexual organs are stimulated here. So the question of whether or not this is then an anal orgasm can actually be debated.
How do I get an orgasm during anal sex?
The question of whether there is a decidedly “anal” orgasm is ultimately irrelevant between the sheets. Much more relevant is the question of how to get an intense orgasm through anal sex. So let’s just dispense with a precise scientific term at this point and turn to the question of how anal sex can be particularly beautiful and bring about the most intense orgasm possible. The following tips will help you to reach a special climax through anal sex – whether the orgasm is then “anal”, you can then judge for yourself after a few hot experiments…
- Trust and the right partner: Anal sex is a matter of trust. The anal sex itself and even the orgasm through it are in most cases and especially the first time not just so feasible and something may well hurt or even break. Therefore, you should really only dare this experiment with a partner who you can trust one hundred percent.
- Preparation is half the battle: Anal sex spontaneously and just like that? Rather not… Proper preparation is the be-all and end-all of sex – or the AHHH for THE orgasm. Find out all about how you can best prepare for anal sex here: Anal Prep: 5 tips to prepare for anal sex.
- Pleasure and relaxation: Actually, the number one rule – only those who really feel like anal experimentation at the exact moment you want to get down to business and can really relax and let go in the situation should try anal sex.
- There is no such thing as too much lube: Lube is a great thing in itself. But during anal sex and for an orgasm through it, it becomes your very best friend. Therefore, should not be saved here in any case, but like to overdo it!
- Proceed carefully and gently and start with fingers or sex toys: When experimenting with anal sex, you should completely break away from the image that is created in porn. The porn version of anal sex is feasible in reality for very few people – the actors and actresses prepare for anal scenes extremely thoroughly, have to take shooting breaks and much more… Especially the first few times, a gentle approach and careful stretching are required. It’s best to start with just fingers or suitable anal toys. This is the best way to find out if and how you like it best.